If you feel charisma is not your thing, don’t worry. Go for being intriguing.
Cognitive biases mess up our view of reality and tweak it without us knowing about it. All you can do is educate yourself and then keep a watchful eye on when they pop up. You will still miss many of them, but you may catch your brain playing a trick on you every now and then, and you may fight back.
A counseling philosopher who uses your own specific experiences as the basis for philosophizing with you about the nature of your life’s problems might be the answer to getting a bearing on the direction of your life.
Focus on well-being increases the amount of flourishing in your own life and the lives of others. When you experience positive emotions, engagement, meaning, achievement, and authentic relationships, you flourish, and you can live up to your potential.
We may kick ourselves and regret an action we took right now. In the long run, though, we are more likely to regret not acting. It is all the missed opportunities that haunt us. Find purpose in life and get into action. It is never too late to start!
We get most of our happy moments from dopamine that is a short-term solution. You need to get more long lasting oxytocin into your life and that means caring for others and have others care for you. You don’t get that by spending your time on social media or watching TV.
We all need to feel we belong. Ignoring everyone to pursue your happiness will lead to the exact opposite. You can’t get your oxytocin flowing sitting home alone. So every now and then, get out and meet some real people.
If you want to improve, you need to get to the point where your mind is protesting. Then do 10% more. That is how you get better. Life is one big mental challenge, and the person you are competing against is yourself.
We are all different. Even if you label yourself as an introvert you can still be very different from the introvert next door. Did you know there are four types of introversion?
Make fact-seeking part of your daily life. Build the habits of critical thinking and checking the data before you rush to conclusions. Stop dramatizing your worldview and see the world for what it is. Not perfect, but getting better.